By JH Siess, Esq.
I get that sinking feeling all over again when I think about it.
It was the summer of 1997. We were getting ready to leave for a relaxing vacation at our favorite destination, Pismo Beach. I was in the house finishing the laundry and packing suitcases while my husband went to the garage to get the car ready.
So my boys, who were then 10 and 5 1/2 years old, went outside to play. I reminded them to stay on the quiet circle where our house was located and not go out onto the busier street with which it intersected. There are two entrances to the circle from the more heavily-trafficked thoroughfare and plenty of room between the two to ride bikes.
I also asked #1Son to keep an eye on his little brother, MattieBoo, who was speeding up and down the sidewalk on his Big Wheels tricycle wearing a neon green Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles helmet that my sister gave him after both of her boys outgrew it.
The street that ran parallel to ours is also a circle, but it can be accessed in either direction from the busier street. So it is possible to turn left or right and loop around back to the main intersection.
After a while, #1Son came in the house, breathless and red-cheeked from riding his bike, and asked, "Hey, Mom, where's Mattie-Boo?"
I froze, but it was too soon to panic. "He went outside with you and you were supposed to be keeping an eye on him, remember? So why are you asking me where he is?"
"Well, I was riding my bike and he was on the sidewalk on his Big Wheels trike, but when I turned around and looked again, he was gone."
I was certain that MattieBoo was out there on the circle and #1Son just didn't see him. So I went out to the garage and told my husband to go out on the driveway and see where MattieBoo was.
"I don't see him," was the response.
And then I felt it for the first time. That sinking feeling. Deep in my stomach. I felt a blood-curdling scream rising up, but stifled it.
"Well, he has to be out there. He went out with #1Son and I told him to stay on the circle."
"I don't see him, but I'll go look." With that, my husband hopped into his car, leaving my Camry with the oil dripping into a pan under it, and took off.
I was confident that in a few seconds, he would drive back up and MattieBoo would come peddling down the sidewalk with the sun bouncing off that ugly green helmet with the big smiling face of a turtle on top.
Instead, my husband came back alone.
That sinking feeling was slowly giving way to full-fledged, oh-my-freakin'-god-where-is-my-child? panic.
I had not gotten dressed yet that morning. I was going to finish the packing while my husband readied the car. Then we were both going to shower, dress, throw the kids in the back seat and hit the road, arriving in Pismo Beach in time for dinner and some evening play time in the hotel pool.
So I threw on my really unattractive, but totally comfortable, fuzzy fuchsia bathrobe and headed outside. I no longer cared that the neighbors might see me with my hair askew and discover what kind of schmatta I puttered around my house in.
I couldn't drive my car since there was no oil in the engine, so my husband took off again in his car to search the adjoining streets, while I walked up and down the circle, hoping against hope that little green helmet would round the corner.
Instead, I contemplated calling the police, figuring that at 10:00 a.m. Monday morning in our little town they were probably just sitting around the donut shop gossiping, so they may as well come help look for MattieBoo. By this time, he had been missing a good 30 minutes and my bathrobe was soaked from my cold sweat, I was breathing rapidly and shallowly, felt dizzy and thought I might pass out, but knew I couldn't give in. I had to find MattieBoo. My baby.
So there I was with the cordless phone in my hand, ready to dial 9-1-1, pacing up and down the circle, calling out, "MattieBoo!" when the next door neighbor, then a middle schooler, came home with some of his friends. He instantly knew something was wrong. "Did you see MattieBoo on your way home?" I asked him. "No," but he and his friends took off immediately to join in the search.
A few minutes later, they were back. "We can't find him."
Nausea set in. The world was spinning. I really thought I was going to lose it.
My husband came back again and he was pale. I could tell he was beginning to feel panicky, too.
"You'd better call the police. I can't find him anywhere. But I'm heading out again." He named the streets he had searched, including the next circle over, but planned to retrace his steps. After all, if he was out there on his Big Wheels, he was a moving target. And if he wasn't there because someone had taken him . . .
I refused to think about it.
Just then I heard sirens on the main thoroughfare a few blocks away. They sent a shiver down my spine the likes of which I have never experienced before or since. "Oh, God . . . please don't let those be for MattieBoo." A vision of that hideous green helmet lying in pieces on the busiest street in town flashed before me and I summarily banished it.
I was powerless without a car. All I could do was keep pacing - and call the police. The dispatcher was professional and sympathetic, and reassured me that an officer would be along shortly to assist us. "I'm sure he's just gotten lost and we will find him, safe and sound," she said in a comforting, if utterly unconvincing, tone.
It seemed like an eternity, but a few minutes later, as I stood there willing my knees to hold me up, I looked down the street to see my husbands car rounding the corner.
And in the front seat next to him, peeking up just above the dashboard, I could see something very green - and exceptionally beautiful.
I will never forget his little face as he smiled at me through the window of the car as it eased into the driveway. There was my MattieBoo with that enormous helmet encircling his gorgeous little bespectacled face. He was grinning from ear to ear.
The car had barely stopped when he hopped out and ran over to me, "Mom! I was riding my Big Wheels and Daddy came and got me!" He had no idea how panicked I had been or why I was crying uncontrollably. I grabbed him and refused to let go, carrying him into the house. I went straight to my bedroom and flopped down on the bed, still squeezing him while my husband got his Big Wheels out of the back of the car.
"Mom, why are you crying?"
"Because I was scared to death. Where were you? We've been looking and looking for you."
"It's ok, Mom," he said, taking both of my cheeks into his little hands. "I was on my way home. I wouldn't leave you."
Just then my husband came in. "Where did you find him?"
"Oh, he was just riding along, completely unconcerned. When I pulled up, he told me, 'I'm trying to get home, Dad.'" He had gone out onto the busy street and ended up on the next circle over.
Ironically, he had been riding around and around that circle, trying to get back onto ours. But the first few times my husband drove through that adjacent circle looking for him, he was on the opposite side and did not hear his father calling him. The same thing must have happened when #1Son and the other boys rode their bikes over to that circle to search for him. Finally, my husband got lucky, ending up on the same side of the circle at the same moment as MattieBoo.
I let him go play with his brother. They were both aware that I was upset, but completely oblivious, of course, to the extent of my distress or their father's.
I made the boys stay in the house the rest of the morning while I finished packing, my husband completed the oil change and we were ready to begin our vacation, during which I never took my eyes off either of my babies.
Having learned his lesson about the neighborhood geography, MattieBoo never again left the circle without my permission.
And there have been other moments since then when I have gotten a sinking feeling in my stomach, but, thankfully, none exactly like the one I experienced that day. http://www.jhsiess.com/2007/08/25/i-get-that-sinking-feeling/
Wednesday, October 31, 2007
Monday, October 29, 2007
The Truth
By Carine Nadel
Getting old SUCKS. There I've said and written it. I mean it and I'm not sorry I did.
Quite frankly when I was 30 I saw myself being one of those baby boomers who went to aerobics class, ran with my dog, wore high heels and still had mostly brunette hair-naturally-when I found myself double that particular age.
Truth is, life has laughed at me. I had to give up dance and aerobic classes around 32 (sciatica). Running went to power-walking by age 40 (rheumatoid arthritis). at 49, a broken foot and nerve damage made me switch from power-walking to just trying to get in some form of walking without loosing my balance.
I haven't been able to wear high heels since, oh 1992. As for the hair, well honestly, I probably have more brunette than gray. But I don't know. You see, by the time I'm at the end of month 3 of the last home dye job, I race to the drug store and buy a new box of Garnier Nutrisse's chocolate peanut before it gets any worse.
Well at least I'm still a size 4.
These feelings aren't just in my head-this I'm certain of. A high school friend lamented "isn't getting old hard enough without receiving an invitation from AARP?"
Yes, yes and double yes!
He then informed me that I'd be getting my invite next since he's but a mere 4 weeks older than me.
I have become more mellow with age. Things that would have had me seething at 35, now just get a miffed-looking shrug. Most notably: plates left in the sink when the dishwasher's empty and towels left on the floor of the bathroom.
Of course other things that never bothered me before, really "get my goat" now.
Folding a load of towels and leaving them "resting" on top of the linen closet instead of putting them away. A particular 23-year-old who repeatedly finishes the pitcher of crystal lite and then puts it back into the refrigerator EMPTY.
Some things I like about getting older: grandkids and um, uh, hmmmm.
Okay, right now I'm at a complete loss for other good things. There must be a few more. Someone out there-quick, help me out and add to the list of positives.
Carine Nadel is on The Reader's Advisory Panel of Woman's Day magazine and has had numerous articles and recipes published both on various websites and print publications. To read more of her work, log onto: http://www.Carine-whatscooking.blogspot.com
Getting old SUCKS. There I've said and written it. I mean it and I'm not sorry I did.
Quite frankly when I was 30 I saw myself being one of those baby boomers who went to aerobics class, ran with my dog, wore high heels and still had mostly brunette hair-naturally-when I found myself double that particular age.
Truth is, life has laughed at me. I had to give up dance and aerobic classes around 32 (sciatica). Running went to power-walking by age 40 (rheumatoid arthritis). at 49, a broken foot and nerve damage made me switch from power-walking to just trying to get in some form of walking without loosing my balance.
I haven't been able to wear high heels since, oh 1992. As for the hair, well honestly, I probably have more brunette than gray. But I don't know. You see, by the time I'm at the end of month 3 of the last home dye job, I race to the drug store and buy a new box of Garnier Nutrisse's chocolate peanut before it gets any worse.
Well at least I'm still a size 4.
These feelings aren't just in my head-this I'm certain of. A high school friend lamented "isn't getting old hard enough without receiving an invitation from AARP?"
Yes, yes and double yes!
He then informed me that I'd be getting my invite next since he's but a mere 4 weeks older than me.
I have become more mellow with age. Things that would have had me seething at 35, now just get a miffed-looking shrug. Most notably: plates left in the sink when the dishwasher's empty and towels left on the floor of the bathroom.
Of course other things that never bothered me before, really "get my goat" now.
Folding a load of towels and leaving them "resting" on top of the linen closet instead of putting them away. A particular 23-year-old who repeatedly finishes the pitcher of crystal lite and then puts it back into the refrigerator EMPTY.
Some things I like about getting older: grandkids and um, uh, hmmmm.
Okay, right now I'm at a complete loss for other good things. There must be a few more. Someone out there-quick, help me out and add to the list of positives.
Carine Nadel is on The Reader's Advisory Panel of Woman's Day magazine and has had numerous articles and recipes published both on various websites and print publications. To read more of her work, log onto: http://www.Carine-whatscooking.blogspot.com
Saturday, October 27, 2007
Handbag - Does Size Matter?
By Yukitee T
I have small children but to my blessing, I have past the diaper bag stage. However, I still tend to carry a medium to larger size bag when the kids are around because I always get the 'here mom, carry this' where ever we go. Drives you crazy doesn't it!!
On the other hand, I'm tired of the big thing so I like the smaller size bags to feel feminine once again. They are so handy especially on those ladies night out or those rare dates with my husband. Did I say rare! We, ladies like to look good and not be overpowered by our purse. Ladies need to carry the basics at all times and that little purse fits the need. We live such hectic lifestyles and are always on the move. We don't want anything big and clunky in the way to slow us down any more than we need to be. If you are carrying a briefcase, portfolios, or your laptop, as well or other business items, you definitely don't want to carry another large item.
Now, there are those super small evening bags that I just haven't figured it out why anyone bothers. You can maybe fit your lipstick in them if you are lucky. I guess it is all in the look. I am the practical type so I don't get it! There are plenty of reasonably sized evening bags that look great. Now ladies, I must say that too many of you buy the little handbags when you should not. I've seen them so crammed with stuff that they look distorted. Break down and buy a larger bag. It will look much neater and we will see the great handbag you're carrying and not a mess.
Gone are the days of the moms carrying the huge bag with everything in it including the kitchen sink. You know, the one's carrying the first aid kit, sewing kit, scissors etc. just as my mom does. Oh, and they need lots of pockets for all that stuff that make them having hard time finding the keys because they don't know which pocket it is in. My mom's a seasoned grandmother and I guess she feels she still needs to carry everything. 'Just in case!' There are plenty of our mothers/grandmothers out there that you know exactly what I'm talking about. I have women buy the cute nice size handbag and then the huge one for their mom. Do you fall into this huge bag syndrome?
Speaking of moms, let us not forget the dedicated new moms of the world. I honor all of you because I have been there done that. These are the women who give up their handbags altogether for the diaper bag. You carry so much around for the kids that you just stuff your wallet in the diaper bag. There's no time for yourself so the lipstick is definitely dropped from the contents of what you carry. Occasionally you try to take back your womanly status and carry a purse but realize fast what a hassle. Diaper bags have changed so much over the years. There are so many fantastic looking diaper bags that really don't look like a diaper bag. They are useful, because that's important, but great looking too.
Now, lets take a look at the younger set. Teenagers and young adults have a mind of their own and a definite taste of their own. They are coming into themselves of who they are and what they want from life. It has better to be a very in and stylish handbag. Don't ever try to buy a handbag for them unless they have seen it and asked for it. Guaranteed you'll be returning it after you've given it to them. They definitely like the smaller cute stylish ones. Not too fancy but very in. No large bag, which might make them feel old or like a mom. The college set will carry the larger bag only for books in school. They appeal to the feminine side instead of the backpacks.
I ask you, where do you fall in the world of handbag size? Are you like me, or most ladies out there, got to have them all. I guess you can call it the handbag fetish!
Yukitee is the founder of http://www.DesignerHandbagDiscount.com
I have small children but to my blessing, I have past the diaper bag stage. However, I still tend to carry a medium to larger size bag when the kids are around because I always get the 'here mom, carry this' where ever we go. Drives you crazy doesn't it!!
On the other hand, I'm tired of the big thing so I like the smaller size bags to feel feminine once again. They are so handy especially on those ladies night out or those rare dates with my husband. Did I say rare! We, ladies like to look good and not be overpowered by our purse. Ladies need to carry the basics at all times and that little purse fits the need. We live such hectic lifestyles and are always on the move. We don't want anything big and clunky in the way to slow us down any more than we need to be. If you are carrying a briefcase, portfolios, or your laptop, as well or other business items, you definitely don't want to carry another large item.
Now, there are those super small evening bags that I just haven't figured it out why anyone bothers. You can maybe fit your lipstick in them if you are lucky. I guess it is all in the look. I am the practical type so I don't get it! There are plenty of reasonably sized evening bags that look great. Now ladies, I must say that too many of you buy the little handbags when you should not. I've seen them so crammed with stuff that they look distorted. Break down and buy a larger bag. It will look much neater and we will see the great handbag you're carrying and not a mess.
Gone are the days of the moms carrying the huge bag with everything in it including the kitchen sink. You know, the one's carrying the first aid kit, sewing kit, scissors etc. just as my mom does. Oh, and they need lots of pockets for all that stuff that make them having hard time finding the keys because they don't know which pocket it is in. My mom's a seasoned grandmother and I guess she feels she still needs to carry everything. 'Just in case!' There are plenty of our mothers/grandmothers out there that you know exactly what I'm talking about. I have women buy the cute nice size handbag and then the huge one for their mom. Do you fall into this huge bag syndrome?
Speaking of moms, let us not forget the dedicated new moms of the world. I honor all of you because I have been there done that. These are the women who give up their handbags altogether for the diaper bag. You carry so much around for the kids that you just stuff your wallet in the diaper bag. There's no time for yourself so the lipstick is definitely dropped from the contents of what you carry. Occasionally you try to take back your womanly status and carry a purse but realize fast what a hassle. Diaper bags have changed so much over the years. There are so many fantastic looking diaper bags that really don't look like a diaper bag. They are useful, because that's important, but great looking too.
Now, lets take a look at the younger set. Teenagers and young adults have a mind of their own and a definite taste of their own. They are coming into themselves of who they are and what they want from life. It has better to be a very in and stylish handbag. Don't ever try to buy a handbag for them unless they have seen it and asked for it. Guaranteed you'll be returning it after you've given it to them. They definitely like the smaller cute stylish ones. Not too fancy but very in. No large bag, which might make them feel old or like a mom. The college set will carry the larger bag only for books in school. They appeal to the feminine side instead of the backpacks.
I ask you, where do you fall in the world of handbag size? Are you like me, or most ladies out there, got to have them all. I guess you can call it the handbag fetish!
Yukitee is the founder of http://www.DesignerHandbagDiscount.com
Thursday, October 25, 2007
Why I Only Style Hair With Round Brushes And A Hair Dryer
By Doris Moller
You probably have not encountered many hair stylists who do not use a curling iron when they style hair. I am a hair stylist that does not use a curling iron. I only use a blow dryer and a round brush. In other words I only blow-style hair. (The only exception is when I do an inverted curl on medium to long hair or use a flat iron for super straight styling or use a half round brush for very short hair). Some people are wondering why.
Typically, regardless of which salon you go to, the curling iron is the hair styling tool of choice. I prefer the round brush over a curling iron, using different sizes of round brushes and a good hand held hair dryer. I will tell you why in a minute.
Now I am not talking about the technique where you place several round brushes throughout the hair and leave them there a few minutes before taking them out to style the hair. The technique I am talking about involves taking inch-wide sections and blow styling them, which will give the hairstyle wonderful body yet a natural look.
I can now imagine what you are thinking, that styling hair that way can�t be good, and that the style will have no body and it will never last. Most people would think that because they have never had their hair styled by a stylist who was good at blow styling hair. I sometimes get asked by a new client to use the curling iron because she thinks that her style will last longer. I however explain to her that using the blow styling method will be much better.
Contrary to what most people believe, when using the right technique of course, your hairstyle will last longer when blow styled. Not only will it last longer, it will also look more natural. There is no hairstyle that cannot be created with a round brush and a hand held hair dryer, be it soft curls or large curls, smooth or straight, for short or long hair, curly or straight hair, styles with volume or less volume.
The reason why I get better results with blow styling is this. First, I am able to reach the roots of the hair much better because of the flow of the hot air from the blow dryer which results in shaping the hair right from the scalp and giving it any lift I want by holding the round brush and the blow dryer at the right angle and manipulating the hot air close to the root area. This makes it possible to shape this area of the hair and give it the proper lift right from the roots.
Achieving that lift makes a big difference to how your hairstyle will look and last. It is impossible to do with the curling iron, to get this close to the scalp because it would burn your scalp. Besides, using a curling iron never looks as natural as when hair is styled with a round brush, which is also one of the disadvantages of using a curling iron.
Secondly, and very importantly, I have much more flexibility in styling hair because I can use different sizes of brushes based on how I want the hairstyle to look.
I discovered the different effects of hair styling tools on my own hair, especially since I style my hair myself. It�s a great way to find out what works best and over the years I have perfected the technique of blow styling. I love hairstyles that look natural but last for several days and in my opinion the blow styling method is the best for achieving this result.
Copyright 2007 http://www.dorismollerhairstyling.com
Doris M�ller is the owner and operator of http://www.dorismollerhairstyling.com
She has been a hair stylist/color/perm technician for many years and is located in Toronto, Canada. Doris M�ller is also the author of How To Color Your Hair Just Like a Professional, The Top Twenty Formal Updos for Hair You Can Do and The Insider Hairstyle Report newsletter.
You probably have not encountered many hair stylists who do not use a curling iron when they style hair. I am a hair stylist that does not use a curling iron. I only use a blow dryer and a round brush. In other words I only blow-style hair. (The only exception is when I do an inverted curl on medium to long hair or use a flat iron for super straight styling or use a half round brush for very short hair). Some people are wondering why.
Typically, regardless of which salon you go to, the curling iron is the hair styling tool of choice. I prefer the round brush over a curling iron, using different sizes of round brushes and a good hand held hair dryer. I will tell you why in a minute.
Now I am not talking about the technique where you place several round brushes throughout the hair and leave them there a few minutes before taking them out to style the hair. The technique I am talking about involves taking inch-wide sections and blow styling them, which will give the hairstyle wonderful body yet a natural look.
I can now imagine what you are thinking, that styling hair that way can�t be good, and that the style will have no body and it will never last. Most people would think that because they have never had their hair styled by a stylist who was good at blow styling hair. I sometimes get asked by a new client to use the curling iron because she thinks that her style will last longer. I however explain to her that using the blow styling method will be much better.
Contrary to what most people believe, when using the right technique of course, your hairstyle will last longer when blow styled. Not only will it last longer, it will also look more natural. There is no hairstyle that cannot be created with a round brush and a hand held hair dryer, be it soft curls or large curls, smooth or straight, for short or long hair, curly or straight hair, styles with volume or less volume.
The reason why I get better results with blow styling is this. First, I am able to reach the roots of the hair much better because of the flow of the hot air from the blow dryer which results in shaping the hair right from the scalp and giving it any lift I want by holding the round brush and the blow dryer at the right angle and manipulating the hot air close to the root area. This makes it possible to shape this area of the hair and give it the proper lift right from the roots.
Achieving that lift makes a big difference to how your hairstyle will look and last. It is impossible to do with the curling iron, to get this close to the scalp because it would burn your scalp. Besides, using a curling iron never looks as natural as when hair is styled with a round brush, which is also one of the disadvantages of using a curling iron.
Secondly, and very importantly, I have much more flexibility in styling hair because I can use different sizes of brushes based on how I want the hairstyle to look.
I discovered the different effects of hair styling tools on my own hair, especially since I style my hair myself. It�s a great way to find out what works best and over the years I have perfected the technique of blow styling. I love hairstyles that look natural but last for several days and in my opinion the blow styling method is the best for achieving this result.
Copyright 2007 http://www.dorismollerhairstyling.com
Doris M�ller is the owner and operator of http://www.dorismollerhairstyling.com
She has been a hair stylist/color/perm technician for many years and is located in Toronto, Canada. Doris M�ller is also the author of How To Color Your Hair Just Like a Professional, The Top Twenty Formal Updos for Hair You Can Do and The Insider Hairstyle Report newsletter.
Tuesday, October 23, 2007
Designing Your Own Jewelry
By Nicole Lindsey
Many consumers are catching on to the notion that designing their own jewelry is not such a bad idea after all. There are varying reasons in which consumers may choose to create their own jewelry instead of purchasing it ready made. Some of these reasons include therapy, for sell, gifting, and to cut costs. Depending on the style of jewelry that a buyer is need of, the cost may not be as affordable as one may have expected. Casual, costume, personalized, and Swarovski bridal jewelry are just a few of the many styles of jewelry that can be created in the comforts of your home. Let�s explore the pros and cons of handmade jewelry.
Therapy
In recent years, researchers have found that designing jewelry has therapeutic properties. This is a great exercise for someone that is looking for a leisure hobby. It is true that in many ways creating your own jewelry can be self-fulfilling and therapeutic, however, for a bride, designing her own Swarovski bridal jewelry may not agree with her time schedule. When it comes to wedding planning, time is of the essence, and the more that a bride can do to decrease her level of stress, the easier her trip down the wedding aisle will be.
For Selling
For those jewelry lovers that are looking for ways to make a little extra money, selling handmade jewelry will give them the best of both worlds. There is nothing more fulfilling than doing something that you enjoy and making money while doing it! When selling handmade jewelry, it is important to consider your competitors. Many consumers, brides in particular, are more apt to shop at a brick and mortar store or a more established online jewelry store. If you plan to sell handmade Swarovski bridal jewelry, then be aware that you have a lot of steep competition ahead of you.
Gifts
There is nothing more special than the thought behind a special gift. Making jewelry for your loved one is a wonderful gift idea for birthdays, Christmas, and weddings. A bride might consider designing her girlfriends wedding jewelry as a unique bridesmaids gift or she might solicit a dealer that specializes in handmade Swarovski bridal jewelry.
Cut Costs
While there are hundreds of jewelry kits on the market, Swarovski crystals have proven to be among the few that are considered to be of high quality. Not only do everyday consumers enjoy wearing Swarovski jewelry, but also Swarovski bridal jewelry is a number one pick for many brides. Although cutting costs is important for many brides, cutting time is equally as important. In the wedding industry, many jewelry dealers offer discount prices on Swarovski wedding jewelry so that brides will not have to break their banks or spend unnecessary time hand making their own jewelry.
When investing your time and money into making your own jewelry, it is important to consider your motivation for creating your jewelry and whether or not it is cost and time-effective.
Nicole Lindsey writes about fashion, jewelry and weddings for Silverland Jewelry and gifts. http://www.silverlandjewelry.com
Find a wide selection of swarovski crystal necklaces and other crystal wedding jewelry
Many consumers are catching on to the notion that designing their own jewelry is not such a bad idea after all. There are varying reasons in which consumers may choose to create their own jewelry instead of purchasing it ready made. Some of these reasons include therapy, for sell, gifting, and to cut costs. Depending on the style of jewelry that a buyer is need of, the cost may not be as affordable as one may have expected. Casual, costume, personalized, and Swarovski bridal jewelry are just a few of the many styles of jewelry that can be created in the comforts of your home. Let�s explore the pros and cons of handmade jewelry.
Therapy
In recent years, researchers have found that designing jewelry has therapeutic properties. This is a great exercise for someone that is looking for a leisure hobby. It is true that in many ways creating your own jewelry can be self-fulfilling and therapeutic, however, for a bride, designing her own Swarovski bridal jewelry may not agree with her time schedule. When it comes to wedding planning, time is of the essence, and the more that a bride can do to decrease her level of stress, the easier her trip down the wedding aisle will be.
For Selling
For those jewelry lovers that are looking for ways to make a little extra money, selling handmade jewelry will give them the best of both worlds. There is nothing more fulfilling than doing something that you enjoy and making money while doing it! When selling handmade jewelry, it is important to consider your competitors. Many consumers, brides in particular, are more apt to shop at a brick and mortar store or a more established online jewelry store. If you plan to sell handmade Swarovski bridal jewelry, then be aware that you have a lot of steep competition ahead of you.
Gifts
There is nothing more special than the thought behind a special gift. Making jewelry for your loved one is a wonderful gift idea for birthdays, Christmas, and weddings. A bride might consider designing her girlfriends wedding jewelry as a unique bridesmaids gift or she might solicit a dealer that specializes in handmade Swarovski bridal jewelry.
Cut Costs
While there are hundreds of jewelry kits on the market, Swarovski crystals have proven to be among the few that are considered to be of high quality. Not only do everyday consumers enjoy wearing Swarovski jewelry, but also Swarovski bridal jewelry is a number one pick for many brides. Although cutting costs is important for many brides, cutting time is equally as important. In the wedding industry, many jewelry dealers offer discount prices on Swarovski wedding jewelry so that brides will not have to break their banks or spend unnecessary time hand making their own jewelry.
When investing your time and money into making your own jewelry, it is important to consider your motivation for creating your jewelry and whether or not it is cost and time-effective.
Nicole Lindsey writes about fashion, jewelry and weddings for Silverland Jewelry and gifts. http://www.silverlandjewelry.com
Find a wide selection of swarovski crystal necklaces and other crystal wedding jewelry
Sunday, October 21, 2007
Having It All - Perspectives And Possibilities For Working Mothers
By Lindsay Wittenberg
You may be reading this because you�ve had a full-time job and you�ve been building a career in an organisation. Sometimes this has meant working late, getting in early or travelling. Although you haven�t exactly relished those demands on you, you�ve been able to meet them with a degree of flexibility, maybe giving up some of the time you would have had with family or friends who are dear to you. Or maybe you�ve been running your own business. While you�ve had more choices about how you use your time, you�re still likely to have put in significant amounts of time and commitment beyond the confines of a conventional working day.
Suddenly your priorities get turned upside down. A new little being comes along who not only demands your attention urgently from one second to the next, but whose wellbeing is at least as meaningful to you as your career. And this little being is entirely dependent on you. While their dependency slowly diminishes as they grow, your commitment to them does no such thing. You�re having to make some difficult choices with practical implications: if you�ve gone back to work � or you�re considering going back to work � how are you going to juggle what are often conflicting demands on you? The boss needs the report done by first thing tomorrow morning, it�s 4 o�clock in the afternoon and you need to leave at 5 promptly to get to the childminder. Or maybe you�re working four days a week, and a key team meeting is going to happen on the day you�re not there. Or a client needs delivery of your product or service super-fast, within a timescale that conflicts with your time at work. Situations like these exert pressure and stress not only in the moment but also because of the implications for the development of your career or your own business.
Having It All is an unrealistic dream for any mother, but you can choose your compromises in a planned way, without feeling that you�re being wedged into a corner and giving away your integrity. Being clear on key issues so that you know � and can claim � who you are and what matters to you can help you manage the multiple tensions.
Know what�s important to you and manage your priorities: Each of us is driven by our values � what is fundamental about the way we want to live and work, and how we expect other people to behave. If your life is out of line with your values, you may well feel stressed, frustrated or deeply unfulfilled. Suppose what matters to you includes autonomy, freedom to speak your mind, honesty and flexibility. You�ll feel fulfilled and satisfied working in an environment which encourages personal initiative, provides plenty of opportunity for you to give your opinion, in a working culture which is relaxed about you leaving 15 minutes early one day because you�re trusted to give back in some other way on another occasion. On the other hand, you�re likely to feel miserable if making your views felt is frowned upon � whether implicitly or explicitly � because there�s an expectation that you�ll toe the party line and going to the school concert at Christmas is a subject of muttering and resentment. Get clear on your top five values � your non-negotiables - write them down in priority order, and think about how you can live them at work and at home (one way of identifying your values is to recall situations where you�ve been angry or frustrated: they�ll show you what matters to you). Does the culture of the organisation you�re in fit with what�s most important to you? If not, plan what you�re going to do about it.
Be clear on your boundaries: Knowing your values, what are you willing to compromise on? What are you prepared to tolerate and what would be completely intolerable? Being clear in advance on the sacrifices you�re prepared to make will mean that you�re less likely to wake up one day and find yourself in a situation that may have evolved gradually and which is demanding something of you that that you now resent giving. Take care to re-visit your boundaries every six months or so: as your child grows, as your family develops, as your finances change and as your career perspectives shift, be explicit about the changes in the deal - your willing sacrifices balanced against the gains. You may have some tough decision-making to do. Be honest about the impact of the options on you, your family, your career and your finances. If you make compromises, make them knowingly. Don�t open yourself up to being taken by surprise further down the line. Surprise can cause resentment and can lower morale. Clear expectations can be worked with: they give you a platform for asking for what you want assertively.
Know what you offer: Can you articulate your natural talents, your skills, your expertise and your knowledge? Do you know which skills you really enjoy using? Does your employer (or you if you run your own business) know what they are, and do they value you for them? Do you value you for them? Is your organisation stretching you, giving you opportunities to grow within the context of the hours you work, the role you hold, and the responsibilities you have, and is it preparing you for the next step of your career? Are you asking for those opportunities so that you�re constantly developing? Knowing what you bring, and the difference you make (whether you work part-time or full-time), and helping your organisation to use you to your best advantage will help ensure that you � and they � get what you each deserve.
Know what you want in this step of your career and in the next one: Develop a clear vision of the working life and the non-work life you want, in every respect, and in every detail � in words, pictures, a mindmap or even a collage. Refer back constantly to your vision (at least every couple of weeks) so that you stay focused. The clearer and more detailed your concept is of the vision you�re working towards, the easier it will be achieve because the detail you visualise will have assumed its own reality. Feeling left behind or failing to tap in to your potential career-wise may reflect the fact that you haven�t planned, or come to terms with, what you want from your out-of-work life, your work and your career. It�s all too easy for a mother to be swayed this way and that by the demands and needs of other people and rarely holding out for what she wants or needs. Assess your current life against your vision: how does it match up? If the match isn�t good enough, consider what you could do about it, and then decide what you�re going to do.
Get support: In the rough and tumble of everyday life it�s very easy to simply respond in the moment, and to lose sight of the bigger picture represented by the kinds of issues this article has presented so far. Then suddenly life can get you down, the tensions become too much, and it feels like you�ve lost your way. Having a source of unconditional and independent support already in place can make a huge difference: working mothers who have a buddy, a support group, a coach or a mentor often find that this is how they can regain their balance and their sense of perspective, and their emotional and practical strength, and where they can let off steam in a safe context (family sometimes has too much of a vested interest in this kind of situation to give the independent support that�s needed, although the value of a supportive partner can�t be over-estimated).
Make time for yourself: The more calls there are on your attention and your energies, the more important it is to create time for yourself, a space in which you can reflect, draw breath, and reassess. Often working mothers find that they�re merely snatching moments here and there. Conversely, planning � and taking - time every day, even as little as 20 minutes, to be alone with your thoughts, reflect on what matters, or savour something of beauty can help you get back in touch with yourself and find yourself again.
Be realistic and focused: Remember Superwoman only exists in the comics and cartoons. Maintain a sense of reality around what you aim for, whether you stay employed or you decide to start your own business. This is difficult in the competitive working world we live in, but working mothers (and others!) often get a greater sense of achievement by focusing on one goal at a time and making sure it�s reachable than by aiming to do everything well. In many ways being a working mum is like trying to live two people�s lives at the same time. It can�t be done absolutely perfectly. In my view it�s pretty much impossible to Have It All: a glittering full-time career and a totally dedicated life as a mother simply can�t be had simultaneously. But the good news is that you can Have A Lot Of It by being explicit and clear to yourself and others about what you want, the compromises you are � and aren�t � prepared to make, what you have to offer, facing the honest truth about the extent to which your current organisation can meet your needs, and by putting in place the support you need. And as the goalposts change, be sure you anticipate those changes and change with them. Above all create the conditions for enjoying both your work and your life outside work: possibilities and opportunities are there for you to create the best life you can, for you, your partner and your children.
Lindsay is an executive coach and career coach. Her career history spans personnel management, career counselling, executive career management, business development, consultancy, training, and leadership of a human rights pressure group. Having lived and worked in France and Luxembourg (the latter in the context of the European institutions), she is used to multicultural contexts and speaks fluent French.
Her four passions are: facilitating positive personal change; learning; connecting; and quality service.
lw@lindsaywittenberg.co.uk http://www.lindsaywittenberg.co.uk
+44 771 245 1580
Her personal USP is that, as a challenging, deep, insightful and supportive questioner, she facilitates clients to understand the issues underlying their complex situations and above all how they can turn apparent impossibility into possibility by bringing more of themselves to work.
Qualifications:
� BA (Hons) in Linguistic Science;
� Certified Member of the Institute of Management Consultancy (CMC);
� Member of the European Mentoring and Coaching Council (EMCC);
� Member of the Association for Coaching (MAC);
� Fellow of the Royal Society of Arts
You may be reading this because you�ve had a full-time job and you�ve been building a career in an organisation. Sometimes this has meant working late, getting in early or travelling. Although you haven�t exactly relished those demands on you, you�ve been able to meet them with a degree of flexibility, maybe giving up some of the time you would have had with family or friends who are dear to you. Or maybe you�ve been running your own business. While you�ve had more choices about how you use your time, you�re still likely to have put in significant amounts of time and commitment beyond the confines of a conventional working day.
Suddenly your priorities get turned upside down. A new little being comes along who not only demands your attention urgently from one second to the next, but whose wellbeing is at least as meaningful to you as your career. And this little being is entirely dependent on you. While their dependency slowly diminishes as they grow, your commitment to them does no such thing. You�re having to make some difficult choices with practical implications: if you�ve gone back to work � or you�re considering going back to work � how are you going to juggle what are often conflicting demands on you? The boss needs the report done by first thing tomorrow morning, it�s 4 o�clock in the afternoon and you need to leave at 5 promptly to get to the childminder. Or maybe you�re working four days a week, and a key team meeting is going to happen on the day you�re not there. Or a client needs delivery of your product or service super-fast, within a timescale that conflicts with your time at work. Situations like these exert pressure and stress not only in the moment but also because of the implications for the development of your career or your own business.
Having It All is an unrealistic dream for any mother, but you can choose your compromises in a planned way, without feeling that you�re being wedged into a corner and giving away your integrity. Being clear on key issues so that you know � and can claim � who you are and what matters to you can help you manage the multiple tensions.
Know what�s important to you and manage your priorities: Each of us is driven by our values � what is fundamental about the way we want to live and work, and how we expect other people to behave. If your life is out of line with your values, you may well feel stressed, frustrated or deeply unfulfilled. Suppose what matters to you includes autonomy, freedom to speak your mind, honesty and flexibility. You�ll feel fulfilled and satisfied working in an environment which encourages personal initiative, provides plenty of opportunity for you to give your opinion, in a working culture which is relaxed about you leaving 15 minutes early one day because you�re trusted to give back in some other way on another occasion. On the other hand, you�re likely to feel miserable if making your views felt is frowned upon � whether implicitly or explicitly � because there�s an expectation that you�ll toe the party line and going to the school concert at Christmas is a subject of muttering and resentment. Get clear on your top five values � your non-negotiables - write them down in priority order, and think about how you can live them at work and at home (one way of identifying your values is to recall situations where you�ve been angry or frustrated: they�ll show you what matters to you). Does the culture of the organisation you�re in fit with what�s most important to you? If not, plan what you�re going to do about it.
Be clear on your boundaries: Knowing your values, what are you willing to compromise on? What are you prepared to tolerate and what would be completely intolerable? Being clear in advance on the sacrifices you�re prepared to make will mean that you�re less likely to wake up one day and find yourself in a situation that may have evolved gradually and which is demanding something of you that that you now resent giving. Take care to re-visit your boundaries every six months or so: as your child grows, as your family develops, as your finances change and as your career perspectives shift, be explicit about the changes in the deal - your willing sacrifices balanced against the gains. You may have some tough decision-making to do. Be honest about the impact of the options on you, your family, your career and your finances. If you make compromises, make them knowingly. Don�t open yourself up to being taken by surprise further down the line. Surprise can cause resentment and can lower morale. Clear expectations can be worked with: they give you a platform for asking for what you want assertively.
Know what you offer: Can you articulate your natural talents, your skills, your expertise and your knowledge? Do you know which skills you really enjoy using? Does your employer (or you if you run your own business) know what they are, and do they value you for them? Do you value you for them? Is your organisation stretching you, giving you opportunities to grow within the context of the hours you work, the role you hold, and the responsibilities you have, and is it preparing you for the next step of your career? Are you asking for those opportunities so that you�re constantly developing? Knowing what you bring, and the difference you make (whether you work part-time or full-time), and helping your organisation to use you to your best advantage will help ensure that you � and they � get what you each deserve.
Know what you want in this step of your career and in the next one: Develop a clear vision of the working life and the non-work life you want, in every respect, and in every detail � in words, pictures, a mindmap or even a collage. Refer back constantly to your vision (at least every couple of weeks) so that you stay focused. The clearer and more detailed your concept is of the vision you�re working towards, the easier it will be achieve because the detail you visualise will have assumed its own reality. Feeling left behind or failing to tap in to your potential career-wise may reflect the fact that you haven�t planned, or come to terms with, what you want from your out-of-work life, your work and your career. It�s all too easy for a mother to be swayed this way and that by the demands and needs of other people and rarely holding out for what she wants or needs. Assess your current life against your vision: how does it match up? If the match isn�t good enough, consider what you could do about it, and then decide what you�re going to do.
Get support: In the rough and tumble of everyday life it�s very easy to simply respond in the moment, and to lose sight of the bigger picture represented by the kinds of issues this article has presented so far. Then suddenly life can get you down, the tensions become too much, and it feels like you�ve lost your way. Having a source of unconditional and independent support already in place can make a huge difference: working mothers who have a buddy, a support group, a coach or a mentor often find that this is how they can regain their balance and their sense of perspective, and their emotional and practical strength, and where they can let off steam in a safe context (family sometimes has too much of a vested interest in this kind of situation to give the independent support that�s needed, although the value of a supportive partner can�t be over-estimated).
Make time for yourself: The more calls there are on your attention and your energies, the more important it is to create time for yourself, a space in which you can reflect, draw breath, and reassess. Often working mothers find that they�re merely snatching moments here and there. Conversely, planning � and taking - time every day, even as little as 20 minutes, to be alone with your thoughts, reflect on what matters, or savour something of beauty can help you get back in touch with yourself and find yourself again.
Be realistic and focused: Remember Superwoman only exists in the comics and cartoons. Maintain a sense of reality around what you aim for, whether you stay employed or you decide to start your own business. This is difficult in the competitive working world we live in, but working mothers (and others!) often get a greater sense of achievement by focusing on one goal at a time and making sure it�s reachable than by aiming to do everything well. In many ways being a working mum is like trying to live two people�s lives at the same time. It can�t be done absolutely perfectly. In my view it�s pretty much impossible to Have It All: a glittering full-time career and a totally dedicated life as a mother simply can�t be had simultaneously. But the good news is that you can Have A Lot Of It by being explicit and clear to yourself and others about what you want, the compromises you are � and aren�t � prepared to make, what you have to offer, facing the honest truth about the extent to which your current organisation can meet your needs, and by putting in place the support you need. And as the goalposts change, be sure you anticipate those changes and change with them. Above all create the conditions for enjoying both your work and your life outside work: possibilities and opportunities are there for you to create the best life you can, for you, your partner and your children.
Lindsay is an executive coach and career coach. Her career history spans personnel management, career counselling, executive career management, business development, consultancy, training, and leadership of a human rights pressure group. Having lived and worked in France and Luxembourg (the latter in the context of the European institutions), she is used to multicultural contexts and speaks fluent French.
Her four passions are: facilitating positive personal change; learning; connecting; and quality service.
lw@lindsaywittenberg.co.uk http://www.lindsaywittenberg.co.uk
+44 771 245 1580
Her personal USP is that, as a challenging, deep, insightful and supportive questioner, she facilitates clients to understand the issues underlying their complex situations and above all how they can turn apparent impossibility into possibility by bringing more of themselves to work.
Qualifications:
� BA (Hons) in Linguistic Science;
� Certified Member of the Institute of Management Consultancy (CMC);
� Member of the European Mentoring and Coaching Council (EMCC);
� Member of the Association for Coaching (MAC);
� Fellow of the Royal Society of Arts
Friday, October 19, 2007
Lend A Hand, Lift A Soul
By Misti Burmeister
Sex at a young age, troubles in school, gang-related activity, remaining in abusive relationships, wearing provocative clothing, physical and emotional violence - versus - excellent academic achievement, outstanding athleticism, participation in extra- curricular activities and a commitment to community involvement. What can we do to transform the lives of young women from the first scenario to the latter? And how can each of us make a difference? Can you as an adult step into the world of a young woman and work diligently to empower her to become what she is capable of becoming? How can someone like you possibly help the young women with whom you come into contact? These are all important questions, and I would like to share some of my thoughts.
In our fast-paced society where most parents work and have too little time with their children-certainly much less time than in the past-it is extraordinarily important to find time to encourage and empower young women. Young people strive to achieve a sense of belonging-often in a group or clique of one sort or another-where they can explore and define their identities. In a world where adults are often less involved in the lives of young people, we need to step up and take responsibility for helping them learn about themselves and how to make their way in the world. If we do not, we leave it up to our modern mass media to dictate our children's view of the world, themselves, and thus, their very future. Mass media does not, and perhaps cannot, teach many things. It certainly does little to teach self worth. It does not teach initiative. It does not teach young women even simple things like how to eat healthfully, the value of dressing with class or where to go to grow and learn about themselves and other successful young women.
Young women need you to help them learn and grow. Programs such as Girls Unlimited, athletic activities and extracurricular academic programs all provide positive community-based youth support systems. Many young women do not know about these programs, nor do they think they could ever be a part of them. This is where excellent women mentors can play a key role in the development of young women. Listen, listen, listen to what they are working through. Think about how you can connect them to others and how you can help them grow in a positive way. It simply does not matter if a young woman is your child or not - help them - they will thank you immensely later.
I will never forget the first woman who told me that I could succeed, and then stuck by my side through both good and not-so-good days. No matter when I went to her, she listened to and encouraged me all the same. She never asked, in word or deed, how I was going to help her. She focused only on how she could help me. To this day I think of her, I call her and I send her cards to let her know how much I appreciate everything she did for me. I encourage you to take a moment to think about the first woman who empowered you.
Without mentorship, it is far too easy for young people to be drawn into negative cliques or groups, never living up to their full potential. Because we know that young women have a strong need for affiliation in peer groups, it is absolutely essential that we enable them to connect to positive, supportive environments where they can explore who they are and what they wish to become. Ultimately, we must provide the settings and tools to enable them to realize all the wonderful opportunities that are out there just waiting.
I firmly believe that we should strive to create a world in which any child or young adult - regardless of origin - is not impeded from achieving his or her full potential. Obviously, the desires and wishes of the young are, in large part, directly influenced by those surrounding them. Given the opportunity to be involved in programs that enable them to see their own positive potential, many young women will begin to realize that the world holds possibilities of which they never dreamt. The ability to see what they are capable of in the wider world has to begin somewhere. Strong female mentorship is the key to helping young women get a fast start in the race of life.
I ask you now - who are you mentoring - how are you Lending a Hand and Lifting a Soul?
Here are some suggestions for how you can Lend a Hand to young women:
1. Find someone you work with to listen to and encourage - listen for how you can help her and offer your assistance - do it without any expectations of something in return - just help her.
2. Go to an organization whose mission is to empower young women and offer your time.
3. When you see that a young woman is having difficulty, ask yourself how you can be of assistance - and offer to help.
4. Go to your local University/College's Career Center and offer your time to mentor a student.
Misti Burmeister is a recognized expert in Generational Communication. Learn more about how to improve the communication between generations at Inspirion Inc
If you would like more information on how to become an outstanding mentor - or - if you would like to begin receiving my e-newsletter, please contact me at: info@inspirioninc.com
Sex at a young age, troubles in school, gang-related activity, remaining in abusive relationships, wearing provocative clothing, physical and emotional violence - versus - excellent academic achievement, outstanding athleticism, participation in extra- curricular activities and a commitment to community involvement. What can we do to transform the lives of young women from the first scenario to the latter? And how can each of us make a difference? Can you as an adult step into the world of a young woman and work diligently to empower her to become what she is capable of becoming? How can someone like you possibly help the young women with whom you come into contact? These are all important questions, and I would like to share some of my thoughts.
In our fast-paced society where most parents work and have too little time with their children-certainly much less time than in the past-it is extraordinarily important to find time to encourage and empower young women. Young people strive to achieve a sense of belonging-often in a group or clique of one sort or another-where they can explore and define their identities. In a world where adults are often less involved in the lives of young people, we need to step up and take responsibility for helping them learn about themselves and how to make their way in the world. If we do not, we leave it up to our modern mass media to dictate our children's view of the world, themselves, and thus, their very future. Mass media does not, and perhaps cannot, teach many things. It certainly does little to teach self worth. It does not teach initiative. It does not teach young women even simple things like how to eat healthfully, the value of dressing with class or where to go to grow and learn about themselves and other successful young women.
Young women need you to help them learn and grow. Programs such as Girls Unlimited, athletic activities and extracurricular academic programs all provide positive community-based youth support systems. Many young women do not know about these programs, nor do they think they could ever be a part of them. This is where excellent women mentors can play a key role in the development of young women. Listen, listen, listen to what they are working through. Think about how you can connect them to others and how you can help them grow in a positive way. It simply does not matter if a young woman is your child or not - help them - they will thank you immensely later.
I will never forget the first woman who told me that I could succeed, and then stuck by my side through both good and not-so-good days. No matter when I went to her, she listened to and encouraged me all the same. She never asked, in word or deed, how I was going to help her. She focused only on how she could help me. To this day I think of her, I call her and I send her cards to let her know how much I appreciate everything she did for me. I encourage you to take a moment to think about the first woman who empowered you.
Without mentorship, it is far too easy for young people to be drawn into negative cliques or groups, never living up to their full potential. Because we know that young women have a strong need for affiliation in peer groups, it is absolutely essential that we enable them to connect to positive, supportive environments where they can explore who they are and what they wish to become. Ultimately, we must provide the settings and tools to enable them to realize all the wonderful opportunities that are out there just waiting.
I firmly believe that we should strive to create a world in which any child or young adult - regardless of origin - is not impeded from achieving his or her full potential. Obviously, the desires and wishes of the young are, in large part, directly influenced by those surrounding them. Given the opportunity to be involved in programs that enable them to see their own positive potential, many young women will begin to realize that the world holds possibilities of which they never dreamt. The ability to see what they are capable of in the wider world has to begin somewhere. Strong female mentorship is the key to helping young women get a fast start in the race of life.
I ask you now - who are you mentoring - how are you Lending a Hand and Lifting a Soul?
Here are some suggestions for how you can Lend a Hand to young women:
1. Find someone you work with to listen to and encourage - listen for how you can help her and offer your assistance - do it without any expectations of something in return - just help her.
2. Go to an organization whose mission is to empower young women and offer your time.
3. When you see that a young woman is having difficulty, ask yourself how you can be of assistance - and offer to help.
4. Go to your local University/College's Career Center and offer your time to mentor a student.
Misti Burmeister is a recognized expert in Generational Communication. Learn more about how to improve the communication between generations at Inspirion Inc
If you would like more information on how to become an outstanding mentor - or - if you would like to begin receiving my e-newsletter, please contact me at: info@inspirioninc.com
Wednesday, October 17, 2007
Plus Size Teddies
By Karen MacLean
Plus size teddies are the ultimate in sheer sensuality. Choose from a range of different sizes and cuts. A hot teddy in a daring style can do wonders for your sex appeal. Go for a black teddy for that mysterious, edgy look. Teddies in black and white are very popular, evoking a very retro, 80s feel. Snap crotch teddies are another way to entice your partner. Or tease them!
Gorgeous and Daring!
You will look sensuous and gorgeous. Crotchless teddies make you sizzle on your romantic weekend together. The feel of this dress can add fuel to the fire. Go for an open bust teddy if you dare � the result will be worth it! Show off those gorgeous curves while being daringly open.
Leather and Lace!
If laces and frills thrill you, go with it. Give rein to your (and your partner's) fantasies in a leather teddy. When you team your teddy with accessories like a whip, and high heels - ooh la la � you become a dominatrix! Crack your leather whip to get perfect submission. Can it get any naughtier than this? Why not add a naughty chain embellishment? These daring teddies will show you off well. Feel the sensuousness oozing from your teddy on a romantic evening with your partner.
Mix and Match!
They will work wonders for your romantic life. Team them with matching garter belts and stockings for a stylish, vamp look. You can also wear a sexy robe over your teddy for heightened effect. A plus size teddy is available in cuts and styles that flatter you, and leave him gaping.
Choose from a range of plus size teddies in a variety of fabrics for that sizzling sensuality and mysterious allure.
Karen MacLean is a consultant and writer for online and offline businesses. Karen resides in the province of New Brunswick, Canada. http://www.plus-size-lingerie-4-women.com
Plus size teddies are the ultimate in sheer sensuality. Choose from a range of different sizes and cuts. A hot teddy in a daring style can do wonders for your sex appeal. Go for a black teddy for that mysterious, edgy look. Teddies in black and white are very popular, evoking a very retro, 80s feel. Snap crotch teddies are another way to entice your partner. Or tease them!
Gorgeous and Daring!
You will look sensuous and gorgeous. Crotchless teddies make you sizzle on your romantic weekend together. The feel of this dress can add fuel to the fire. Go for an open bust teddy if you dare � the result will be worth it! Show off those gorgeous curves while being daringly open.
Leather and Lace!
If laces and frills thrill you, go with it. Give rein to your (and your partner's) fantasies in a leather teddy. When you team your teddy with accessories like a whip, and high heels - ooh la la � you become a dominatrix! Crack your leather whip to get perfect submission. Can it get any naughtier than this? Why not add a naughty chain embellishment? These daring teddies will show you off well. Feel the sensuousness oozing from your teddy on a romantic evening with your partner.
Mix and Match!
They will work wonders for your romantic life. Team them with matching garter belts and stockings for a stylish, vamp look. You can also wear a sexy robe over your teddy for heightened effect. A plus size teddy is available in cuts and styles that flatter you, and leave him gaping.
Choose from a range of plus size teddies in a variety of fabrics for that sizzling sensuality and mysterious allure.
Karen MacLean is a consultant and writer for online and offline businesses. Karen resides in the province of New Brunswick, Canada. http://www.plus-size-lingerie-4-women.com
Monday, October 15, 2007
Is Breast Gum A Scam Or Does It Really Boost Breast Size?
By Allen Wicker
Talk to anyone about breast enhancement and the method to achieve a boost in breast size and shape will certainly involve surgery. Watch any of the top makeover shows and if a woman wants breast enhancement, they always give her breast enhancement surgery. This being the case, the mere idea of chewing breast gum seems to be outlandish. The question is, is it outlandish or a tried and true method to enhance your bust line?
Keep in mind when you watch a makeover show, the women on there have a certain allotted time to change their appearance, thus the use of breast enhancement surgery is what will be used. With surgery you can go from an A cup to a C cup virtually overnight. And this is the big difference between breast surgery and breast gum.
Breast gum while a tested and proven method for breast enhancement, cannot give you quick growth overnight. In fact, you�re likely to wait as long as six months or more before you go from let�s say an A cup to a D cup.
But let�s take a look at the advantages of breast gum over that of surgery. With breast gum there is no going to a doctor�s office and then going �under� and being cut open. There�s no painful recovery process. And there are no potential side effects like requiring another round of surgery.
So in essence you�re trading time for safety and ease. However, breast gum cannot force your breasts to outgrow their genetic potential. On one hand this is a plus because your breasts will be the right size for your frame. However if you�re looking for extra large breasts beyond your potential then breast gum may not be right for you.
But just how does breast gum work? It seems almost inconceivable that chewing sticks of gum can do almost the same thing as breast enhancement surgery. The science behind why breast gum works is really quite simple.
Breast gum contains safe natural nutrients called phyto-estrogens. It is these phyto-estrogens that are responsible for breast growth during puberty. As you chew breast gum, these phyto-estrogens are released from the gum and absorbed into the lining of the month. It�s the same idea as drinking a liquid vitamin.
Since these phyto-nutrients are released into the mouth and absorbed into the blood stream, the vehicle of breast gum makes it far more effective than a pill or capsule which must be broken down first before its nutrients can be absorbed.
As you begin to use breast gum on a consistent basis, in lieu of your current gum, these nutrients will spark the growth of your breasts and enhance your size, shape and firmness.
You can stop using breast gum at any time you wish and there�s virtually no risk or side-effects involved. This is one of the biggest reasons why breast gum has been featured on TV and is quickly growing in popularity. Click Here to Learn More About Breast Gum!
Talk to anyone about breast enhancement and the method to achieve a boost in breast size and shape will certainly involve surgery. Watch any of the top makeover shows and if a woman wants breast enhancement, they always give her breast enhancement surgery. This being the case, the mere idea of chewing breast gum seems to be outlandish. The question is, is it outlandish or a tried and true method to enhance your bust line?
Keep in mind when you watch a makeover show, the women on there have a certain allotted time to change their appearance, thus the use of breast enhancement surgery is what will be used. With surgery you can go from an A cup to a C cup virtually overnight. And this is the big difference between breast surgery and breast gum.
Breast gum while a tested and proven method for breast enhancement, cannot give you quick growth overnight. In fact, you�re likely to wait as long as six months or more before you go from let�s say an A cup to a D cup.
But let�s take a look at the advantages of breast gum over that of surgery. With breast gum there is no going to a doctor�s office and then going �under� and being cut open. There�s no painful recovery process. And there are no potential side effects like requiring another round of surgery.
So in essence you�re trading time for safety and ease. However, breast gum cannot force your breasts to outgrow their genetic potential. On one hand this is a plus because your breasts will be the right size for your frame. However if you�re looking for extra large breasts beyond your potential then breast gum may not be right for you.
But just how does breast gum work? It seems almost inconceivable that chewing sticks of gum can do almost the same thing as breast enhancement surgery. The science behind why breast gum works is really quite simple.
Breast gum contains safe natural nutrients called phyto-estrogens. It is these phyto-estrogens that are responsible for breast growth during puberty. As you chew breast gum, these phyto-estrogens are released from the gum and absorbed into the lining of the month. It�s the same idea as drinking a liquid vitamin.
Since these phyto-nutrients are released into the mouth and absorbed into the blood stream, the vehicle of breast gum makes it far more effective than a pill or capsule which must be broken down first before its nutrients can be absorbed.
As you begin to use breast gum on a consistent basis, in lieu of your current gum, these nutrients will spark the growth of your breasts and enhance your size, shape and firmness.
You can stop using breast gum at any time you wish and there�s virtually no risk or side-effects involved. This is one of the biggest reasons why breast gum has been featured on TV and is quickly growing in popularity. Click Here to Learn More About Breast Gum!
Saturday, October 13, 2007
Plus Size Costumes For Women
By Rich Rojas
Costume parties are a unique form of social event. It�s a chance to express yourself and take on a persona completely different from what others typically see you as. Unfortunately for plus size women, it can be difficult to find a costume at the local big box store that is designed to flatter. These costumes are often one size fits none, and can be a real pain. Luckily for you, there are many online retailers of plus size costumes for women, and with a few clicks, you can find the perfect costume!
When choosing a plus size costume, it is important to take your measurements first. Many online retailers offer a chart for sizing guidelines. Take your bust, hip, and waist measurements at home with a sewing tape measure, to figure out what size you run. Don�t neglect this important step, as online sizes can vary greatly from store to store. Taking the time to measure now can avoid having to return your costume later.
Costume parties, whether for Halloween, Mardi Gra, or just because, are a great chance to get a little wild and have some fun. The costume options online are virtually limitless � you can choose costumes ranging from sexy to subdued, from mild to wild � it�s all up to you! It�s your chance to shine. Change things up a little, and pick out the costume you�ve always wanted, but could never find at your local retailer. You can choose a costume in your favorite theme from a variety of sites � many sites even offer sexy �adult� costume options, if you dare.
When choosing your plus size costume, be sure to note what items are included in the package. Some costumes come with everything shown in the picture, while others require you to purchase accessories separately. Shoes are generally not included, so you�ll want to be sure to pick out a pair to go with your great new costume. It is a good idea to purchase all the items you need for your costume at one time, to avoid problems with out of stock merchandise. After all, what�s a fairy without wings or a pirate without a bandanna?
By choosing to buy your costume and accessories at one time, you may also be able to take advantage of shipping discounts. Be sure to purchase your costume well in advance of your costume party to allow time for shipping, and returns if necessary. Check the individual sites return policy before you purchase, to avoid unpleasant surprises. In some cases, the costume must be returned before a certain date in order to receive a refund.
When choosing your costume, you have many options so take the time now to research before your costume party to find just the right plus size costume. This is your chance to shine, so choose your outfit carefully!
To summarize:
*Be sure to measure yourself at home and check merchant sizing guidelines before purchasing.
*Pick out your costume and accessories at the same time, to avoid back �orders and out of stock items and be sure to research the site�s discounts to be sure you get the best possible deal.
*Be sure to check the return policy, so that you know what to do if your costume isn�t exactly perfect.
Use these tips to find your perfect plus size costume for Halloween, Mardi Gra, or just because, and remember, your options are virtually unlimited when you shop online!
Learn more great tips for selecting plus size costumes for women. Also be sure to check out our stunning plus size formal wear for holiday parties, balls, proms, home coming, and all formal occasions!
Costume parties are a unique form of social event. It�s a chance to express yourself and take on a persona completely different from what others typically see you as. Unfortunately for plus size women, it can be difficult to find a costume at the local big box store that is designed to flatter. These costumes are often one size fits none, and can be a real pain. Luckily for you, there are many online retailers of plus size costumes for women, and with a few clicks, you can find the perfect costume!
When choosing a plus size costume, it is important to take your measurements first. Many online retailers offer a chart for sizing guidelines. Take your bust, hip, and waist measurements at home with a sewing tape measure, to figure out what size you run. Don�t neglect this important step, as online sizes can vary greatly from store to store. Taking the time to measure now can avoid having to return your costume later.
Costume parties, whether for Halloween, Mardi Gra, or just because, are a great chance to get a little wild and have some fun. The costume options online are virtually limitless � you can choose costumes ranging from sexy to subdued, from mild to wild � it�s all up to you! It�s your chance to shine. Change things up a little, and pick out the costume you�ve always wanted, but could never find at your local retailer. You can choose a costume in your favorite theme from a variety of sites � many sites even offer sexy �adult� costume options, if you dare.
When choosing your plus size costume, be sure to note what items are included in the package. Some costumes come with everything shown in the picture, while others require you to purchase accessories separately. Shoes are generally not included, so you�ll want to be sure to pick out a pair to go with your great new costume. It is a good idea to purchase all the items you need for your costume at one time, to avoid problems with out of stock merchandise. After all, what�s a fairy without wings or a pirate without a bandanna?
By choosing to buy your costume and accessories at one time, you may also be able to take advantage of shipping discounts. Be sure to purchase your costume well in advance of your costume party to allow time for shipping, and returns if necessary. Check the individual sites return policy before you purchase, to avoid unpleasant surprises. In some cases, the costume must be returned before a certain date in order to receive a refund.
When choosing your costume, you have many options so take the time now to research before your costume party to find just the right plus size costume. This is your chance to shine, so choose your outfit carefully!
To summarize:
*Be sure to measure yourself at home and check merchant sizing guidelines before purchasing.
*Pick out your costume and accessories at the same time, to avoid back �orders and out of stock items and be sure to research the site�s discounts to be sure you get the best possible deal.
*Be sure to check the return policy, so that you know what to do if your costume isn�t exactly perfect.
Use these tips to find your perfect plus size costume for Halloween, Mardi Gra, or just because, and remember, your options are virtually unlimited when you shop online!
Learn more great tips for selecting plus size costumes for women. Also be sure to check out our stunning plus size formal wear for holiday parties, balls, proms, home coming, and all formal occasions!
Thursday, October 11, 2007
Hairstyles For Curly Hair - Funky and Fun, or Glamorous and Sexy?
By Brooke Hayles
Even though many gals are used to grabbing their flat iron and straightening out their curls, hairstyles for curly hair are becoming popular again and they are now easier than ever to maintain. Curly hairstyles can be worn by almost anybody, even those who don�t have naturally curly hair. Curly hairstyles can be worn short, long, or even in between, and look great for almost any occasion.
Long Hairstyles For Curly Hair:
Long hairstyles for curly hair are typically the easiest to manage, since the length of the hair helps to weight down the curls and keep them in their place. Mya�s long and tight curls are famous for their beauty, and this look can easily be duplicated with the right cut and use of a small curling iron. Her hair is cut with angled layers around the top, which works to create an uneven fullness all throughout her hair. The style can easily be maintained with regular trims to keep the hair healthy, and can be styled in a number of different ways. Apply sculpture wax to damp hair for a more casual look, and scrunch your hair until dry for a style full of volume.
Alyssa Milano has amazing hair when she adds some curl to it, and the length is just perfect for thick loose curls. Using a larger curling iron will create loose curls, while a small one will create tighter curls. Alyssa has a medium length hairstyle with a small amount of layers throughout, which works great to add volume to the curls. This particular style works great for those with medium to thick hair, since the thick hair can hold the loose curls with either sculpture wax or spray.
Short Hairstyles For Curly Hair:
There are also many great short hairstyles for curly hair, and Tisha Campbell has made short curls look amazing. The length hits right above the shoulders, which is short enough to be worn down by just long enough to create some amazing styles. Sculpture lotion works great at keeping the curls in their place, and scrunching the hair when it is wet will keep the curls full of volume. This style can be worn down for a casual atmosphere, yet it is still long enough to clip up the front for an evening look that is flawless.
Because curls can cause frizz, it is always important to apply a sculpting wax or gel to keep them tamed. Tight curls can be scrunched to add definition and volume, or you can use hot rollers to add some definition to loose curls and waves. Bobby pins work great at keeping curls in their place when you want to wear your hair up, or you can leave it down and spray it with a shine enhancer for a shiny look that will amaze. There are many different hairstyles for curly hair, all of which can look great on anybody as long as they are kept healthy and maintained.
See what YOU look like with the latest hairstyles for curly hair, as well as celebrity hairstyles - view them on your own uploaded photo now! Try On 5,000 Hairstyles! FREE Demo http://www.thehairstyler.com
Even though many gals are used to grabbing their flat iron and straightening out their curls, hairstyles for curly hair are becoming popular again and they are now easier than ever to maintain. Curly hairstyles can be worn by almost anybody, even those who don�t have naturally curly hair. Curly hairstyles can be worn short, long, or even in between, and look great for almost any occasion.
Long Hairstyles For Curly Hair:
Long hairstyles for curly hair are typically the easiest to manage, since the length of the hair helps to weight down the curls and keep them in their place. Mya�s long and tight curls are famous for their beauty, and this look can easily be duplicated with the right cut and use of a small curling iron. Her hair is cut with angled layers around the top, which works to create an uneven fullness all throughout her hair. The style can easily be maintained with regular trims to keep the hair healthy, and can be styled in a number of different ways. Apply sculpture wax to damp hair for a more casual look, and scrunch your hair until dry for a style full of volume.
Alyssa Milano has amazing hair when she adds some curl to it, and the length is just perfect for thick loose curls. Using a larger curling iron will create loose curls, while a small one will create tighter curls. Alyssa has a medium length hairstyle with a small amount of layers throughout, which works great to add volume to the curls. This particular style works great for those with medium to thick hair, since the thick hair can hold the loose curls with either sculpture wax or spray.
Short Hairstyles For Curly Hair:
There are also many great short hairstyles for curly hair, and Tisha Campbell has made short curls look amazing. The length hits right above the shoulders, which is short enough to be worn down by just long enough to create some amazing styles. Sculpture lotion works great at keeping the curls in their place, and scrunching the hair when it is wet will keep the curls full of volume. This style can be worn down for a casual atmosphere, yet it is still long enough to clip up the front for an evening look that is flawless.
Because curls can cause frizz, it is always important to apply a sculpting wax or gel to keep them tamed. Tight curls can be scrunched to add definition and volume, or you can use hot rollers to add some definition to loose curls and waves. Bobby pins work great at keeping curls in their place when you want to wear your hair up, or you can leave it down and spray it with a shine enhancer for a shiny look that will amaze. There are many different hairstyles for curly hair, all of which can look great on anybody as long as they are kept healthy and maintained.
See what YOU look like with the latest hairstyles for curly hair, as well as celebrity hairstyles - view them on your own uploaded photo now! Try On 5,000 Hairstyles! FREE Demo http://www.thehairstyler.com
Tuesday, October 9, 2007
Making A Jennifer Aniston Hairstyle Look Great On You!
By Brooke Hayles
Many women wish they could pull off a Jennifer Aniston hairstyle, but it's actually much easier than many may think. Jennifer Aniston is most commonly known for her long, straight hair, which is usually cut in layers to add some extra volume. Long layers work great for those who have either a triangle shaped face or a long face, since the layers work to change the shape of the face. Long layers also work great for those who want to add some volume to their hair, since the layers work to add texture unlike straight cut hair. Long bangs that sweep to the side can be added for those who want to take some attention away from their forehead, but it will still look great with the long layered look.
A long layered, Jennifer Aniston hairstyle is very easy to maintain, since all it requires is a trim every couple of months. Special products can be used to define the layers, such as a hair wax or spray gel to make the layers look separate from one another. A curling iron can also be used on this Jennifer Aniston hairstyle, since the different layers look great with a little bit of curl in them. You can choose either a small or large curling iron; depending on how much volume you are looking to add.
This Jennifer Aniston hairstyle is great for almost any occasion, since it can be worn in a number of different styles. You can add some waves for a more dressed up look, or wear it naturally straight for a casual look. Long layers are still long enough that they can be put up into a number of different styles, including a ponytail, bun, or even an evening up style. It is a perfect look that can be worn all year long, and only takes a few minutes to style each morning. A Jennifer Aniston hairstyle is a great hairstyle for almost anybody, since it looks great and is easy to take care of.
See what YOU look like with a Jennifer Aniston Hairstyle, AND others of the latest celebrity hairstyles - view them on your own uploaded photo now! Try On 5,000 Hairstyles! FREE Demo http://www.thehairstyler.com
Many women wish they could pull off a Jennifer Aniston hairstyle, but it's actually much easier than many may think. Jennifer Aniston is most commonly known for her long, straight hair, which is usually cut in layers to add some extra volume. Long layers work great for those who have either a triangle shaped face or a long face, since the layers work to change the shape of the face. Long layers also work great for those who want to add some volume to their hair, since the layers work to add texture unlike straight cut hair. Long bangs that sweep to the side can be added for those who want to take some attention away from their forehead, but it will still look great with the long layered look.
A long layered, Jennifer Aniston hairstyle is very easy to maintain, since all it requires is a trim every couple of months. Special products can be used to define the layers, such as a hair wax or spray gel to make the layers look separate from one another. A curling iron can also be used on this Jennifer Aniston hairstyle, since the different layers look great with a little bit of curl in them. You can choose either a small or large curling iron; depending on how much volume you are looking to add.
This Jennifer Aniston hairstyle is great for almost any occasion, since it can be worn in a number of different styles. You can add some waves for a more dressed up look, or wear it naturally straight for a casual look. Long layers are still long enough that they can be put up into a number of different styles, including a ponytail, bun, or even an evening up style. It is a perfect look that can be worn all year long, and only takes a few minutes to style each morning. A Jennifer Aniston hairstyle is a great hairstyle for almost anybody, since it looks great and is easy to take care of.
See what YOU look like with a Jennifer Aniston Hairstyle, AND others of the latest celebrity hairstyles - view them on your own uploaded photo now! Try On 5,000 Hairstyles! FREE Demo http://www.thehairstyler.com
Sunday, October 7, 2007
Buying a Bikini Swimsuit Ideal For Your Body
By Luvi Marie Corcuera
Of all the swimwear products a woman could have, "Bikini Swimsuit" is one of the scariest words in many women's vocabulary, and not because they are hard to get or difficult to use but because the right type of swimsuit is needed to fit each particular body. However if you know what to look for, then almost any body type can look good in a bikini swimsuit. Each woman should learn how to cover the flaws and flaunt your body.
There are various ways to ensure that you use the appropriate bikini swimsuit that would fit your body and make you look as good in it as you should depending on the characteristics of your body shape and size of your breasts and bottoms. By checking your body features with the descriptions and recommendations below you should be able to determine what works out best for you.
Having Small Breasts
In high school, having small breasts may have brought you jeers and perhaps reduced your self confidence, but today designers readily glorify the small breast particularly on the runway. A great majority of their bikini models that take to the ramp in fashion shows have small breast and show them off proudly.
The way to enhance small breasts would be to buy bikini swimsuits that are designed with sequins, ruffles and other different decorations that tend to add an additional layer of fabric on the swimsuit. This gives a nice little illusion that your breasts are fuller. The use of triangular string bikinis also add to this illusion and enhances the look with more fullness of the breasts, the smaller the triangular fabric the larger the breast will look.
Having Large Breasts
While women with large breast are not often heard complaining, there are some that do simply because of some special problems that may arise with having a well endowed front, especially when shopping for a bikini swimsuit. One of the main problems that women with large breasts have is the support and the comfort that the bikini tops provides to them.
The best way to get around this problem is to wear bikini tops with underwire which will provide some support in addition to have a little more full coverage of the breasts to give a better comfort level.
Should you want to draw attention away from your breasts, then the best way is to ensure that your bottoms are eye-catching in some way such as having more details on the bikini bottoms than on the tops. Coordinating the use of a scarf around the hip of your bikini bottoms gives you a way to look more stylish and draw additional attention.
Whether you are endowed with a small or a large butt, there are a few simple ways to enhance your look in a bikini by choosing the bikini bottom that will make you stand out even more.
Having a Small Butt
In general, small butts don't appear as a problem for most people but to those that are concerned then the easiest way to calm your fears with the choice of a bikini swimsuit you should know the following information:
Thongs and triangular bikini bottoms tend make your butt flatter than brief type bikini bottomsAdditional decorations to the bikini bottoms enhances its shapeThe use of ruffles will help fill out a rump that is lacking in flesh.Having Large Bottoms
For those that have more bottom than they would wish to have, what is important is to draw attention away from your butt and more to your top. By mixing and matching the color combinations of your bikini swimsuits to give a light to dark contrast between your bottoms and your tops, this gives you the ability to draw more attention to your tops by making your tops a lot more brighter and eye-catching and making the bottoms a little darker. The brighter the top is the more likely this will draw the greater attention than your bikini bottoms.
Conclusion
Whatever your body type is, by simply mixing and matching different combinations of your bikini tops and bottoms with various styles, you will be able to enhance your look to be the one that is best suited to you and make you look so much more sexy in a bikini swimsuit. Whether you have a small butt, large bottoms small or large breasts, you just simply buy the sizes that gives more emphasis on your figure and shape.
The bottom line is to wear what you are most comfortable in and be as hot as you can.
Luvi Marie Corucuera is a full time Mom and works part time as the Editor of Informational sites such as: Exotic Exercises and Beauty Tips
Of all the swimwear products a woman could have, "Bikini Swimsuit" is one of the scariest words in many women's vocabulary, and not because they are hard to get or difficult to use but because the right type of swimsuit is needed to fit each particular body. However if you know what to look for, then almost any body type can look good in a bikini swimsuit. Each woman should learn how to cover the flaws and flaunt your body.
There are various ways to ensure that you use the appropriate bikini swimsuit that would fit your body and make you look as good in it as you should depending on the characteristics of your body shape and size of your breasts and bottoms. By checking your body features with the descriptions and recommendations below you should be able to determine what works out best for you.
Having Small Breasts
In high school, having small breasts may have brought you jeers and perhaps reduced your self confidence, but today designers readily glorify the small breast particularly on the runway. A great majority of their bikini models that take to the ramp in fashion shows have small breast and show them off proudly.
The way to enhance small breasts would be to buy bikini swimsuits that are designed with sequins, ruffles and other different decorations that tend to add an additional layer of fabric on the swimsuit. This gives a nice little illusion that your breasts are fuller. The use of triangular string bikinis also add to this illusion and enhances the look with more fullness of the breasts, the smaller the triangular fabric the larger the breast will look.
Having Large Breasts
While women with large breast are not often heard complaining, there are some that do simply because of some special problems that may arise with having a well endowed front, especially when shopping for a bikini swimsuit. One of the main problems that women with large breasts have is the support and the comfort that the bikini tops provides to them.
The best way to get around this problem is to wear bikini tops with underwire which will provide some support in addition to have a little more full coverage of the breasts to give a better comfort level.
Should you want to draw attention away from your breasts, then the best way is to ensure that your bottoms are eye-catching in some way such as having more details on the bikini bottoms than on the tops. Coordinating the use of a scarf around the hip of your bikini bottoms gives you a way to look more stylish and draw additional attention.
Whether you are endowed with a small or a large butt, there are a few simple ways to enhance your look in a bikini by choosing the bikini bottom that will make you stand out even more.
Having a Small Butt
In general, small butts don't appear as a problem for most people but to those that are concerned then the easiest way to calm your fears with the choice of a bikini swimsuit you should know the following information:
Thongs and triangular bikini bottoms tend make your butt flatter than brief type bikini bottomsAdditional decorations to the bikini bottoms enhances its shapeThe use of ruffles will help fill out a rump that is lacking in flesh.Having Large Bottoms
For those that have more bottom than they would wish to have, what is important is to draw attention away from your butt and more to your top. By mixing and matching the color combinations of your bikini swimsuits to give a light to dark contrast between your bottoms and your tops, this gives you the ability to draw more attention to your tops by making your tops a lot more brighter and eye-catching and making the bottoms a little darker. The brighter the top is the more likely this will draw the greater attention than your bikini bottoms.
Conclusion
Whatever your body type is, by simply mixing and matching different combinations of your bikini tops and bottoms with various styles, you will be able to enhance your look to be the one that is best suited to you and make you look so much more sexy in a bikini swimsuit. Whether you have a small butt, large bottoms small or large breasts, you just simply buy the sizes that gives more emphasis on your figure and shape.
The bottom line is to wear what you are most comfortable in and be as hot as you can.
Luvi Marie Corucuera is a full time Mom and works part time as the Editor of Informational sites such as: Exotic Exercises and Beauty Tips
Friday, October 5, 2007
Self-Defense For Women
By Keith Londrie
Self defense is quite important nowadays with the increasing crime levels. Women are more likely to become victims of abuse and for that reason self defense for women is something anyone should learn.
May women thing self defense include complicated martial arts techniques that require many years of training and practice. In fact there martial arts really help when defense is needed however there are more much simpler techniques that can be applied.
Joining a self defense for women class will teach you how to act and react in dangerous situations. You will learn which are the weak points of the attacker and how take advantage of them. Moreover you will learn some specific moves hat can help you push back the attacker and let you escape.
Self defense classes are a great thing. On the other hand there are more things that every woman has to remember. The first thing is to try to avoid potentially dangerous situations and how to react if something bad happens.
Many women put themselves at risk without even realizing it. For example passing to dark areas, being at places where there are no other people are potentially dangerous. Any woman should carefully choose her route and pickup routes that are well lit, open, and in possible, where there are a lot of people. Moreover looking confident all the time can save you as the attackers would rather attack someone who looks scared and unconfident.
If you feel someone is watching you than be alert. Rely on your instinct as it can save you. Attackers usually watch or follow the victim for certain period of time and than attack. If you feel you are watched or followed immediately try to go to a place where many people are.
If you are being attacked try to keep calm. Panic will only make things worse. Moreover if you are attacked fighting back is not always the best choice. Do not forget that the one who attacks is prepared to be attacked too. Always try to escape first.
If you see that the escape is not possible try to turn the situation in your favor. For example if you are being robbed give your money to the robber and than escape. Of course agreeing with the attacker is not always working so in this case you will have to be prepared to fight back.
Being self confident, not loosing your temper and knowing some basic self defense techniques are vital. Take action and join a self defense for women class as soon as possible.
Keith Londrie II is the Webmaster of http://self-defenseforwomen.coffee-info.info A website that specializes in providing information on self defense for womenthat you can research on the internet. Please Visit http://self-defenseforwomen.coffee-info.info Today!
Self defense is quite important nowadays with the increasing crime levels. Women are more likely to become victims of abuse and for that reason self defense for women is something anyone should learn.
May women thing self defense include complicated martial arts techniques that require many years of training and practice. In fact there martial arts really help when defense is needed however there are more much simpler techniques that can be applied.
Joining a self defense for women class will teach you how to act and react in dangerous situations. You will learn which are the weak points of the attacker and how take advantage of them. Moreover you will learn some specific moves hat can help you push back the attacker and let you escape.
Self defense classes are a great thing. On the other hand there are more things that every woman has to remember. The first thing is to try to avoid potentially dangerous situations and how to react if something bad happens.
Many women put themselves at risk without even realizing it. For example passing to dark areas, being at places where there are no other people are potentially dangerous. Any woman should carefully choose her route and pickup routes that are well lit, open, and in possible, where there are a lot of people. Moreover looking confident all the time can save you as the attackers would rather attack someone who looks scared and unconfident.
If you feel someone is watching you than be alert. Rely on your instinct as it can save you. Attackers usually watch or follow the victim for certain period of time and than attack. If you feel you are watched or followed immediately try to go to a place where many people are.
If you are being attacked try to keep calm. Panic will only make things worse. Moreover if you are attacked fighting back is not always the best choice. Do not forget that the one who attacks is prepared to be attacked too. Always try to escape first.
If you see that the escape is not possible try to turn the situation in your favor. For example if you are being robbed give your money to the robber and than escape. Of course agreeing with the attacker is not always working so in this case you will have to be prepared to fight back.
Being self confident, not loosing your temper and knowing some basic self defense techniques are vital. Take action and join a self defense for women class as soon as possible.
Keith Londrie II is the Webmaster of http://self-defenseforwomen.coffee-info.info A website that specializes in providing information on self defense for womenthat you can research on the internet. Please Visit http://self-defenseforwomen.coffee-info.info Today!
Wednesday, October 3, 2007
5 Tips To Reduce Menopause Hot Flashes
By Dean Caporella
What can you do about menopause hot flashes? Although it's not the worst symptom you can suffer through menopause it's one which can cause plenty of anxiety and angst among sufferers.
So is there a sure-fire way to relieve the onset of hot flashes? In this article, we'll highlight five steps you can take to help free you, if only for brief periods, from the incidence of hot flashes.
Five Ways To Lessen The Onset Of Menopause Hot Flashes
We know hot flashes can strike at any time which makes it all the more frustrating and in certain situations, can cause a little embarrassment. Here are five ways you could use to lessen the incidence.
1. Undoubtedly the best and most reliable way of solving the problem is hormone replacement therapy. The only problem is, it's getting a bad rap because of the risk of heart disease and cancer. This is something you need to discuss with your doctor.
2. If you suffer regular bouts of hot flashes then start o log of when it occurs and the possible triggers which causes it. The trick then is to stay away from these triggers.
3. Try exercise. The most recommended form of exercise is walking and it has an uncanny ability ability to make women with menopausal symptoms feel a lot better. Recently, yoga has also surfaced as a way to reduce hot flash incidents.
4. Find ways to effectively cool the body. Setting room temperatures to a level below what's most comfortable is great but then you run the risk of alienating the other members in the home. Wearing light clothing both day and night and if you get chills, put on an extra layer of clothing. Using ice to cool areas such as the wrist and neckline can help as well as cold drinks.
5. Reducing stress is important. Deep breathing exercises are a great way to alleviate stress. By doing deep breathing exercises and reducing stress you also cut cut on the heat produced by the body. This can be an effective method for temporary relief from menopause hot flashes.
Want more great tips and advice on dealing with the symptoms of menopause? Learn ways to alleviate menopause hot flashes and other symptoms and reduce the stress of menopause.
What can you do about menopause hot flashes? Although it's not the worst symptom you can suffer through menopause it's one which can cause plenty of anxiety and angst among sufferers.
So is there a sure-fire way to relieve the onset of hot flashes? In this article, we'll highlight five steps you can take to help free you, if only for brief periods, from the incidence of hot flashes.
Five Ways To Lessen The Onset Of Menopause Hot Flashes
We know hot flashes can strike at any time which makes it all the more frustrating and in certain situations, can cause a little embarrassment. Here are five ways you could use to lessen the incidence.
1. Undoubtedly the best and most reliable way of solving the problem is hormone replacement therapy. The only problem is, it's getting a bad rap because of the risk of heart disease and cancer. This is something you need to discuss with your doctor.
2. If you suffer regular bouts of hot flashes then start o log of when it occurs and the possible triggers which causes it. The trick then is to stay away from these triggers.
3. Try exercise. The most recommended form of exercise is walking and it has an uncanny ability ability to make women with menopausal symptoms feel a lot better. Recently, yoga has also surfaced as a way to reduce hot flash incidents.
4. Find ways to effectively cool the body. Setting room temperatures to a level below what's most comfortable is great but then you run the risk of alienating the other members in the home. Wearing light clothing both day and night and if you get chills, put on an extra layer of clothing. Using ice to cool areas such as the wrist and neckline can help as well as cold drinks.
5. Reducing stress is important. Deep breathing exercises are a great way to alleviate stress. By doing deep breathing exercises and reducing stress you also cut cut on the heat produced by the body. This can be an effective method for temporary relief from menopause hot flashes.
Want more great tips and advice on dealing with the symptoms of menopause? Learn ways to alleviate menopause hot flashes and other symptoms and reduce the stress of menopause.
Monday, October 1, 2007
Superwoman Syndrome - When Best Isn't Good Enough
By [http://ezinearticles.com/?expert=Aidan_Maconachy]Aidan Maconachy
Despite the gains women have made over the past few decades, �liberation� hasn�t always panned out to be liberating.
In real life terms, liberation for many women means assuming multiple roles, taking on multiple responsibilities and being the subject of multiple expectations. Working women who hold down demanding professional jobs are expected to be great mothers, attentive spouses, extended family coordinators, resourceful meal planners, interesting sex partners and not just do it well ... but live up to the unrealistic expectations encoded in female role model depictions on the media.
The comparisons are everywhere. Turn on the tube and there is Martha Stewart, who despite jail time, looks in top form as she effortlessly genies up another culinary miracle - just after redecorating the kitchen, retiling the roof and grooming the dog. Switch to a reality show and women who according to the experts have �image issues� are transformed into primped and sprayed �improved selves� - while the camera pans back to pics of their challenged former selves in order to remind viewers how far they have come. Turn to another channel and there is the super successful author J.K Rowlings signing books after chatting with her accountant about how to best invest the millions her literary talents have earned. Switch yet again and there is rail thin Victoria Beckham striking a pose that advertises the benefits of flexing an iron will in the dieting department.
Women who are perceived as super successful can make those who are influenced by such comparisons think they are coming up short. Even women who are doing very well by any reasonable standard.
An interesting study published in the behavioral science journal, Sex Roles, confirms the view that constant exposure to female icons of success on the media, can negatively impact young women - even giving rise to feelings of anxiety, excessive dieting and compulsive/obsessive disorders. A survey conducted by Sex Roles in New York included interviews with 900 school age girls. They spoke of the enormous pressures to succeed both academically, in extra-curricular activities and in living up to the expectations of demanding peer groups.
What about the male angle in all of this? As women become more empowered, are men stepping up to take pressure off a partner juggling multiple roles? Some are, but a lot aren�t.
The old attitude about �woman�s work� still holds true. Male partners who change diapers, wash the dishes, cook and do the laundry often see it as a concession. Men who take on these tasks willingly have in many cases developed a new perspective on gender roles and no longer adhere to the traditional role divisions. But there is a long way to go.
Women need to tune out the superwoman fantasy. It�s a tabloid fiction and is never the way it appears in the media. The perfection cult that conveys the message that the way you are is never good enough because hey - you can always be better - is unrealistic and is making a lot of women sick. Psychologists are finding that women who are most susceptible to these types of pressures often experience feelings of guilt and worthlessness. Loss of sex drive, dietary issues and feelings of inadequacy are also quite common.
Last time I watched a reality show that claimed to be in the business of making women look more attractive, I actually thought the �before� photo of the subject was way more attractive than the dolled up version the �experts� were all applauding.
It�s a good thing to want to look your best - but an obsessive-compulsive urge to look your super-best can be a problem.
Aidan Maconachy resides in Ontario, Canada. He has a BA Hons and a BEd. He taught in the UK and Canada, and has been a contributor to a variety of magazines and newspapers over the years. You can visit his blog at http://aidanmaconachyblog.blogspot.com/
Despite the gains women have made over the past few decades, �liberation� hasn�t always panned out to be liberating.
In real life terms, liberation for many women means assuming multiple roles, taking on multiple responsibilities and being the subject of multiple expectations. Working women who hold down demanding professional jobs are expected to be great mothers, attentive spouses, extended family coordinators, resourceful meal planners, interesting sex partners and not just do it well ... but live up to the unrealistic expectations encoded in female role model depictions on the media.
The comparisons are everywhere. Turn on the tube and there is Martha Stewart, who despite jail time, looks in top form as she effortlessly genies up another culinary miracle - just after redecorating the kitchen, retiling the roof and grooming the dog. Switch to a reality show and women who according to the experts have �image issues� are transformed into primped and sprayed �improved selves� - while the camera pans back to pics of their challenged former selves in order to remind viewers how far they have come. Turn to another channel and there is the super successful author J.K Rowlings signing books after chatting with her accountant about how to best invest the millions her literary talents have earned. Switch yet again and there is rail thin Victoria Beckham striking a pose that advertises the benefits of flexing an iron will in the dieting department.
Women who are perceived as super successful can make those who are influenced by such comparisons think they are coming up short. Even women who are doing very well by any reasonable standard.
An interesting study published in the behavioral science journal, Sex Roles, confirms the view that constant exposure to female icons of success on the media, can negatively impact young women - even giving rise to feelings of anxiety, excessive dieting and compulsive/obsessive disorders. A survey conducted by Sex Roles in New York included interviews with 900 school age girls. They spoke of the enormous pressures to succeed both academically, in extra-curricular activities and in living up to the expectations of demanding peer groups.
What about the male angle in all of this? As women become more empowered, are men stepping up to take pressure off a partner juggling multiple roles? Some are, but a lot aren�t.
The old attitude about �woman�s work� still holds true. Male partners who change diapers, wash the dishes, cook and do the laundry often see it as a concession. Men who take on these tasks willingly have in many cases developed a new perspective on gender roles and no longer adhere to the traditional role divisions. But there is a long way to go.
Women need to tune out the superwoman fantasy. It�s a tabloid fiction and is never the way it appears in the media. The perfection cult that conveys the message that the way you are is never good enough because hey - you can always be better - is unrealistic and is making a lot of women sick. Psychologists are finding that women who are most susceptible to these types of pressures often experience feelings of guilt and worthlessness. Loss of sex drive, dietary issues and feelings of inadequacy are also quite common.
Last time I watched a reality show that claimed to be in the business of making women look more attractive, I actually thought the �before� photo of the subject was way more attractive than the dolled up version the �experts� were all applauding.
It�s a good thing to want to look your best - but an obsessive-compulsive urge to look your super-best can be a problem.
Aidan Maconachy resides in Ontario, Canada. He has a BA Hons and a BEd. He taught in the UK and Canada, and has been a contributor to a variety of magazines and newspapers over the years. You can visit his blog at http://aidanmaconachyblog.blogspot.com/
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